In order to lead a successful life, one has to explore and become one with himself. There is not one but many ways a man can conquer his inner self and come out as a winner.
You are tested with difficult situations in your life which may at times seem as the end to your journey, but you must fight it and be brave enough to deal with it. If you believe in yourself, none can stop you other than your own-self. They say that we are our own worst enemy, thus look in the mirror and say to yourself that you can do anything that you wish to achieve.
We are the masters of our own journey indeed, and we should chose to seek our path wisely. Know that, our actions and decisions are what can make us or destroy us. If we tend to follow the wrong path, there will not be any moment of happiness for us in this life or after we have passed away. So one should seek to follow the right path, which makes all the sense in itself, thus benefiting ourselves and others along the way. That is surely a path, that the wise ones have chosen before you and are remembered to this day.
In the end, do what matters to you and makes you happy. Thus, everything will happen for you to succeed in your endeavors by itself, so as they say ‘In the end, the good will always win’.
The generation today has resorted to several means of experiencing euphoria. At first, it seems very enlightening as mostly it is done as a social activity, but people don’t realize how adversely it can impact their lives. Some people might indulge in such activities saying that it is a trend nowadays, however, they don’t realize the fact that drugs and alcohol has been available in this world since the longest times and is not something new.
Having lived in Canada for a while, I learned that this is a major occupation for most people who belong to that country and it spreads like a virus. In my opinion, all kinds of intoxication including marijuana are harmful to people’s health and mental lives. Although many might argue by sharing tons of websites which posts many health benefits of marijuana or even alcohol at times, trust me when I was a part of this recreational activity, I used to take the side of intoxicants myself. It took me some time to overcome all the side effects that had born into me and are still suffered by much of my friends who indulge in smoking pot. It is a complete waste of time and makes us sincerely a dumb generation of people. There is no point in wasting life over such useless things, rather it’s highly important that we should understand the purpose of our lives and push ourselves into achieving that purpose rather than doing somethings that we are at times ashamed of and regret later after committing those actions.
To all my readers, I would honestly advice to protect yourselves from such activities which you yourself know is very wrong when you are doing it. It might at times seem like the only solution to your problems, but trust me there are better things that are worth doing in your lives.
Yesterday, I was going about meanings of words and phrases which had previously not meant much to me. I developed a major understanding of what is merely an idea and what is the truth.
I learned about the two kinds of approach that people use in their lives, idealism and realism.
To summarize what I read and understood, an idealistic approach is what we see as an ideal event which we seek to achieve. I personally being an idealistic person, know that an ideal situation can not always be achieved and it involves a lot of thought process and ofcourse with me, procrastination in order to achieve that perfect situation that we have so created in our mind regarding any situation, be it a house chore or a work project.
However, a realistic approach is to organize and plan, keeping check with reality. Focusing on what today is, finding out the problem or the matter in attention, and then composing a set of guidelines and working forward from that.
So in summary, I realized that I’m on the wrong track designing that perfect world in my mind and working towards that, when in actual I’m missing one important clue. The present is the truth and we cannot change it, however, we can make it better by working out solutions to known problems rather than devising a perfect world plan for example trying to make a car with four wheels to fly, forgetting that it would be better if we start with a compact machine with wings that could fly.
I’m not saying that idealists are wrong, just saying that there is a better approach that I developed today. “Be idealistic thinker, but realistic doers”
Please share your opinions. I would really appreciate any positive or negative feedbacks. My goal is to share and learn.